LET THE RIGHT ONE IN!!

ROBB J ROGAN lets his fingers do the talking ... about the commercial realities of sex in Sydney
where paying for sex is increasingly the path to wedded bliss, or at the very least,
years of down-to-earth contentment ...

“... Brothels have taken many of the next steps in marketing themselves. Sophisticated flash
websites display glossy-magazine-style images of figure-perfect females of every nationality. Many
brothels around the Surry Hills area have "launch" nights, where businessmen enjoy canapes,
fine wines and boutique beers in the company of leggy foxy dames, most of whom the average
man would marry in a moment if not for the reality of the situation. ..."

In Australia, where sex for money is legal, the rate of HIV infection among female prostitutes is so low
that prostitution has been removed from the list of known risk factors in HIV surveillance. In the USA,
reliable data is more difficult to come by, but a 1987 Centers for Disease Control study likewise
found very low infection rates among prostitutes.

It's no great surprise to find these figures so low, because it's becoming increasingly clear that just like much
of Sydney's previously decaying urban real estate, prostitution too has become "gentrified" (no pun intended).

Nowadays your typical Sydney hooker is likely to be a very intelligent, dynamic business or law student,
out to make some quick bucks because she doesn't have the time or patience to work in some shitty
hospitality gig for fifteen bucks an hour.

Gone is the stereotype of the chain-smoking junkie on heroin or crystal meth fucking blankly, anonymously
and unsafely in a darkened drug-paraphernalia-filled room.

Horny young guys too square to know better may have been prowling the pubs wondering where all the
good-looking / hot babes have gone? Sure, many have married themselves off into suburbia, but maybe
that shy square guy should dare to take a walk on the wild side. Enter any Sydney strip club and the place
is filled to overflowing with plastic-perfect females, overwhelmingly students, hanging around and
disrobing at every available opportunity to make some quick cash.

At the next level, many of these so called archetypally beautiful women have long-since taken the next
step and "advanced" to working in semi-classy brothels, which charge anywhere from $160
to $280 per hour for "full service".

The only glass ceiling in this industry is in the brothels' bedrooms.

Brothels have taken many of the next steps in marketing themselves. Sophisticated flash (again no pun
intended) websites display glossy-magazine-style images of figure-perfect females of every nationality.
Many brothels around the Surry Hills area have "launch" nights, where businessmen enjoy canapes,
fine wines and boutique beers in the company of leggy foxy dames, most of whom the average man
would marry in a moment if not for the reality of the situation.

But then again, the smartest young men have already been there, doing just that.

Why, they're thinking to themselves, waste stacks of money on expensive drinks in a bar trying to chat
up "up-themselves" random strangers, or spend on endless further dinners out at luxurious restaurants,
when a young buck can fast-meet a very cute young female, who simply isn't at those pubs or
bars anyway? Okay, there's a fairly hefty "introduction fee", but the young buck then has the chance
to show off his sexual skills, all with the aim of winning the pleasured approval of his concubine, who
may, if she's suitably "taken" with his prowess, pass on her phone number, or at the very least, take
his business card ... and a few days later, bored and lonely, might just send him a text message?
And so the game of love goes on, postmodern post-2000 style.

Some would say that's sad, some would say it's sick, and some would say it's a sorry reflection of today's
society. And they'd be right. But is it much more pathetic than internet dating? Or even dating itself, the
endless charades of cliche courting rituals, the nonsense of St Valentine's Day, the silly sameness
of candle-lit dinners at romantic restaurants - all a conformist pantomime stretching nauseatingly
on forever across the miles and generations.

The relationship has become a commodity to be consumed - a capitalist construct to be conspicuously
shown off. A gargantuan garish gargoyle of restricted eroticism which ultimately, if left to run
the its most conventional, conservative and conformist courses, leaves a woman dry
and a man impotent and emasculated.

Hetero males intent on saving for that mortgage, or embroiled in the neverland of it, may well envy the
price point their gay cousins enjoy as they waft into gay sex saunas, pay their fifteen bucks, and
then proceed to have sex with any bi husband they might fancy that moment.

But for a hetero man, the female possesses a warm wet inviting place that has no substitute. They might try
to substitute cigarettes, or booze, or cocaine, or sport, but ultimately, for a typical male, if there is such a
thing, the female pussy is "home". Unless they happen to be French, because as my dear friend Jean-Paul
once confessed to me in a whisper, when referring to the female anus, "for us French, zat eez 'ome".
Each to their 'ome I guess. His very cute Australian girlfriend really couldn't help, after a glass or two
of wine, but complain that she really wasn't used to that sort of activity and he really was tooooo biiiiigggggg
...... but she was in love with him and very happy for many years, before he took off back to his home
country and she settled down to a more normal life - of more conventional sex with a strapping Australian
artist, the result being a gorgeous daughter just a couple of years later.

Hookers and Escorts of Australia? Relax, tonight may be the night you meet "The One". As I'm sure you're
already aware, just ... waiting ... for him to choose you ...

Robb Rogan is a Sydney-based sex coach & sex consultant & regular contributor to Freshmag.com.au
as well as other publications both online and print. To discuss this article with him,
email him directly via: eros@freshmag.com.au

Men Who Do More Housework Get More Sex

8th January 2010

In a study published in the Journal of Family Issues, men are ow being told
that if they do more housework, they will get more sex.

"Now" being told? That's what men have always been told.

''As life gets busier and time gets tighter, a select group of go-getter spouses can successfully
balance multiple time commitments,'' say the authors, Constance Gager, of Montclair State
University, New Jersey, and Scott Yabiku, of Arizona State University.

The study shows that sexual frequency averaged 82.7 times a year, or 1.6 times a week, although
there was wide variation. Age and the duration of the relationship dampened sexual frequency
, as did being Catholic compared to being Protestant. The presence of small children reduced
frequency but older children were associated with more frequent sex.

Women on average did 41.8 hours of housework a week, almost twice as much as men,
and 19.7 hours of paid work, bringing their total labour to 61.5 hours compared to 57.1 hours
for men's total work hours. The more time spent on housework, the more sex the
men and women reported.

As well, men and women who spent more time in paid work reported more sex, leading
the researchers to conclude that ''individuals may be achievers across multiple spheres''.
Certainly you'd have to include Tiger Woods as one of those achievers across (or inside)
multiple spheres.

The US researchers say their findings debunk the theory that time spent on some pursuits,
such as jobs or housework, must be stolen from other areas, such as sex. ''The much-lamented
speed-up of everyday life … does not appear to have adverse effects on sexual
frequency,'' they say.

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