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How many kids is too many? For every father, the answer is different and based on many factors. In Australia, where the cost of bringing up a child is high, many men and their partners reach a point where vasectomy is the most convenient contraception of all ... The Procedure There are many alternatives to vasectomy, each comes with its own responsibilities. For example, condoms are an excellent form of contraception, when used properly. The condom needs to be put on before any penetration takes place, as pre ejaculate contains active sperm, which can cause pregnancy, and the pre ejaculate is released before the man reaches orgasm. Condoms can also help protect against sexually transmitted infection, again, if used properly. The condom needs to be worn on the penis, before any penetration (oral, vaginal or anal) occurs, otherwise sexually transmitted infection can occur. Condoms are not 100% effective as protection against STI’s but they are the best protection we have. There are also female condoms which are as effective as male condoms for protection against STI and for contraception but they are not as popular. Other alternatives to vasectomy include oral birth control pill, withdrawal method, female ovulation temperature management etc. Risks As with any medical procedure, there are some risks associated with vasectomy. Post-procedure Most men report feeling sore, or uncomfortable for a few days. Most men also report bruising (sometimes spectacular!), and swelling. The bruising and swelling doesn't always happen immediately - it often happens after a few days but in most cases has mostly disappeared after two weeks. You should discuss with your doctor what is, and isn't normal, and how to get treatment if necessary. For comprehensive information on the risks associated with vasectomy click this link: vasectomy risks. Emotions Some men go through a brief period of self consciousness. 50% of men keep their operation a secret, they may believe that the operation is tainted by the stigma of emasculation and thinking it would degrade them in the eyes of their friends. This period passes quickly. A small percentage of men experience depression and angry emotions. Some experience a period of mourning over the loss of their ability to reproduce. These feelings usually resolve given time. A very small percentage of couples experience adjustment difficulties. The emotional distress manifests in sexual dysfunction, impotence, or premature ejaculation. The vasectomy is the catalyst but not the cause. Studies show men who experience impotence post vasectomy are more likely to have female partners who are unable to accept the operation.
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